The Command Position

The most important Feng Shui rule for your bedroom: place your bed in the command position. This means you can see the door from bed but you're not directly in line with it. This position gives you a sense of security and control.

Bed Placement Rules

  • Solid wall behind the headboard (no windows)
  • Nightstands on both sides for balanced energy
  • Space under the bed should be clear and uncluttered
  • No beams directly above the bed
  • Foot of the bed should not point directly at the door

Colors for Bedroom Feng Shui

GoalBest ColorsAvoid
Restful sleepSoft blues, greens, lavenderRed, bright orange
Relationship harmonyWarm pinks, peach, creamBlack, dark gray
Calming energyEarth tones, beige, soft whiteNeon, harsh contrasts

Feng Shui Tips for Couples

  • Use pairs: two nightstands, two lamps, two pillows
  • Keep the space under your bed completely clear
  • Remove electronics — TVs and phones disrupt bedroom chi
  • Use rounded corners instead of sharp furniture edges
  • Place a rose quartz crystal on your nightstand for love energy
The bedroom is the most important room for personal Feng Shui. You spend 8 hours a day here — invest in getting it right.